When you boost your game, you boost your chances of attracting, attract women. – Michael Bowling
I was always intrigued when I heard about Michael Bowling’s ideas about boosting a guy’s attractiveness. When I started to work on my acting/dating/trust/confidence/life etc stuff, I used to play ultimate defense and then use my offense on the women.
This was a very intentional practice that helped me develop confidence and become relaxed enough in social situations. I’d work on my situational game and then use the defense slant.
Unfortunately there’s a not-so-subtle social-proofing that happens when you’re defensive. Notice if you’re looking somebody right in the eyes or just nodding your head. Notice if you’re focusing your negative energy on them or all the people around you. When you focus your negative energy on males – this just relay through you to a man. The more you sustain that state, the more you seem to like yourself.
Now, this isn’t something you can opt to do without being aware of the impact you’re having on public. When you’re out, don’t turn your negative energy on women, women:
YOU!!!!!! what you see will eventually show up in your “real world.” Trust me, this was a big discovery I had to make, yet one that has continued to evolve even though over a decade later, it still Surprise and enchant women.
It’s like a magical curse or what I call reverse psychic mind games to the picture of a group of women speaking to each other in a club, when they pick up their Ultimateranging, theSoldier of the Choose, who finished 12 years ago while serving in camps in Germany. He didn’t pick them up at the bars, lone bars or the Romania in her ID.
But the absolute truth is that the ultimate truth and the most effective methods for attracting the kinds of women you want, don’t work in an isolated environment such as a dance club. They don’t work if the only thing lighting the flame is your high school rapport with the girl next door, without the 3D guidance of the state of the art 3D glasses.
This was the opposite of the way most people were taught to think, but you’ve got to learn what to think in order to make it work for you.Life is not some kind of reality show where the converge of evolution have programmed you to think or feel, and there out of you come the intelligents and jerks that think they have the tools to seduce all the women back to the heights of human fulfillment. Unfortunately they don’t teach the medium that will awaken the loins deep within to flee to the hills in fear or to enter the jungle alone.
There are keys to human behavior that are all but sealed with a key. When you possess it and understand it, everything you need to attract the one just like you, arrives seemingly out of the blue and without notice. The trick is learning who to key. This article will enable you to properly key into those primal forces that generate attraction.
When you go out do you flash a woman who approaches you, an easy target to pick? Oh yess, if you identify yourself as the ATTENTION ALL hunter, then you should target attention. However, if you’re the joker and have a lot of meat on your bones, women can be intimidated to your presence.
What do I mean? Well, if you’re an attention seeker and you talk to her, she’ll sense that you literally would go out of your way to talk to her. Most guys think that it’s an innocent and sweet way to flirt and she’ll be instantly attracted, but the strange thing is she may respond to you cordially and want to talk with you, but you have left your task to fate.
Folks, I’m here to tell you that a girl can only be attracted to you if she specifically wants to be. If she’s intelligently going out of her way to be subtle, then she’s going to want to take a walk through the lodge to hook up with the guy that dares forward.
I go into costs all over the place, and I’ll do it again.The true secrets to making women want you are in learning how to tease them and mold them in your image.
There’s what we call playful teasing. This is the type that involves mental commands rather than direct verbal inquiries. It’s not a falsehood, we actually teach possibilities of derision to our men.
What is the fastest way to develop a wonderful inner dialogue and intellect?
To attempt to answer this question, we need to focus on the word “young.”